Sex is one of the most misunderstood and misused actions a human can perform
It can be the highest and most sacred union of two Beings to create life
Or it can be just fuckin’, and hitting that shit raw dog and bailin’
It can be a conscious and romantic art of the highest healing potential
Or it can be dirty memory so dark, you’ll try and hide it from yourself
Yet the energetic exchange of sex can leave lasting imprints
And herpes don’t’ go away either
Sex is biological and physical
But it can also be emotional and spiritual
It can be compulsive or conscious
Many people don’t know what their life is like when its not ruled by their constant desire for sexual gratification
It takes a prolonged and conscious period of abstinence to reach beyond
The same is true of our desire for food
And pleasurable substances
It can take time away to master the urge to compulsively feed our desire for sense gratification
When a person goes beyond their desire for sex, they experience a kind of freedom from the body
This transcendence may be temporary or permanent
Sex is easy to abuse
It’s so simple to pleasure yourself
Just a flick of the wrist away
Hijack that pleasure system
See where it gets you
12 hours of self-stimulation
Days and years of tuggin’ or playin’
Hundreds of partners
Where does the road lead?
For a man
He must ask, is he sleeping with women and holding them in the highest?
Or are they just places to stick the dick?
If you want to experience dimensions of life that are beyond the self, your incessant need to stimulate yourself is only tethering you to your body
No judgment, do as you will, your choice is yours
But sex can be an act of love too
A true union
An act of transcendence
A dance of the souls
A gift from spirit
But it must be treated as sacred, each love-making must be conscious and treated with care and grace
The night should be devoted to washing, preparing, cleansing, and purifying the body temple
If one is to truly orgasm, every cell must awaken
The process is beautiful, if it is done right
The process is never hurried
Nor do either of the parties ever lose control and turn into beasts
This does not mean the energies do not become aroused and fierce
It rather denotes a kind of control and mastery of inner energies
Most people merely organism in their genitals
Whereas master’s of the art of love, raise the energy up their spine and their entire Being orgasms
If at the end of your orgasm your life is not complete and you are not ready to die, the you have not climaxed
Each moment of love making is an art
It is not a means to some end; each moment is an end unto itself
Each moment is to be breathed in and tasted
Each moan is to be felt
Each touch should penetrate deep within your heart
Your bodies will dissolve, and your breath will synchronize as your energies become as one moving, breathing, bliss-body
To make love in this way, is how we should bring creation into being
To bring new life into this world as act of passionless and compulsive pleasure seeking is helping no one
To create a sacred union, and to make the act of creation the most celebrated and beautiful moment of giving and receiving, is a way to commit to love, and commit to raising a child in love and out of love
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