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- Sit together, and look into each others eyes while imagining all the things your going to do to the other partner, while pulsing and breathing into your genitals …the more you can imagine and feel and get into it, the better… then as things built, let it naturally act itself out … often better than you could have ever imagined
- When you self pleasure, have a level of love in your heart
- Play with your nipples throughout the day
- Wear a genital accessory, like a cocktail ring to stay present and bring more awareness to your se× organs for better mindbody control
- Sit on and massage your perineum with a tennis ball …works well in vehicle to stay grounded too
- Drink your partners urine (if they are healthy and have a clean diet)
- Spit in each others holes
- One partner lies down and tries to stay still and contain their arousal, while the other slithers over them, and moans in their ear
- Touch your partners body after warming your hands by rubbing them together, but only at the distance of the the little hairs that cover their body ..activating subtle sensation …works well if partners have a bush or gential hair
- Tie or gag your partner
- Roll your partners balls in your palm
- Stretch out your sac and breath into the fascia
- Have your partner hang weights on your member
- Tap the area right above the se× organ
- Stimulate the piriformis muscle
- Practice tongue exercises
- Motor boat your partners cleavage and cracks
- Suck your partners flesh
- Slowly and with love apply pressure or pain …being mindful to go slow, and work with the tolerance of your partner
- Take turns slapping each other
- Make love under layers and layers of blankets
- Make love with a turbin on to activate crown
- Practice moaning deep and meduim and high tone to open of bodymind
- Sweep up and down the body to organize energy channels
- Learn to utilize the thrusting channel (qigong)
- Stick your finger in your partners mouth and explore, and/or pull their lip
- Utilize circular movement to swirl energy
- Swirl your hand around partners members
- Flick the tip
- When partner (male is hard) pull his member down hold it there for a few moments then let it fling up and hit his stomache
- When partner (male is hard) stroke his member away (base to tip) while he times his breathing with the sensation… then work it in reverse to gain better control of sexual energy
- When orgasmic energy is high, inhale, hold breath squeeze entire body… or circulate up spine… option to do headstone to bring orgasm energy to brain for full body orgasm
- Video tape your se×
- Self pleasure yourself while your partner shows off their body
- Dance for your partner
- Sing for your partner
- Clean naked for your partner
- Make dinner naked for your partner
- Spend the day being naked
- If one partner has a sensitive area and their body, help them to integrate and accept it by holding it with your hands and allowing them to breath into it and holding the space with love -if both partners are willing, of course
- While penetrating put pressure on or around perineum or anus
- Circle the anus and get them to flex it to engorged it with blood and activate the hormones and glands near and around
- Then use your tongue
- Tongue can go anywhere, even a gentle licking of the eye… when we are aroused the saliva can create endorphins which can be absorbed and offered
- Get into your favorite yoga asanas, then allow your partner to massage you, stimulate your meridians, your stimulate your pleasure parts
- Have one partner gentle and quickly punch the buttocks for several minutes or both partners bounce of their bottoms to activate muladhara
- Practice energetics locks (breathwork)
- Breath your partner in as you kiss
- Circulate breath by breathing it through your body exhaling it then other partner inhales in.. bring it through sex centers
- Kiss upper lip, lower lip, peck, smooth, suck, bite, suckle, graze, tease, press, push
- Quickly kiss 33 times
- Kiss with eyes open
With love,
Aya -ZK
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