How to Breath While Making Love

Shiva, if you want to keep our love aflame you must learn the sacred art of breathing.

Shakti, what is this sacred art?

Learning the sacred art of breathing is the only way to know love in your depths.

Shallow breathers stay on the surface of ecstasy, while those who know how to allow the breath to penetrate deep know the depths of love.



So then Shiva, when you recognize me, breath me in.

Breath me into your eyes and see me. Breath me into your ears and hear me. Breath me in through all of your senses and know me in you.

Breath me in through your skin and feel me in your body.

Breath my whole body and being in, from head to toe, know my emotion and mind through my breath.

Listen to the song of my breath.

Dance with the ebb and flow of life.

Breath into your intentions and consciously activate what is arising in you.

Breath in the truth that is alive.


When we are near, relax and let our breaths natural synchronize with one another. When breath is in harmony, all else will flow. Let the primary conversation be one of body and energy, let us use words with precision.

When you speak, which is another way of breathing, harmonize your words with your heart.

Let there be an openness to give and receive the sensations of breath In your heart.

Then my love can enter.



Before you kiss me take a gentle, but full inhale, then softly and slowly as you kiss me exhale.

The inhale stimulates the heartrate to rise, whereas the exhale encourages the heartrate to slow and relaxes the body.

Relax into the kiss and soften.


When are you turned on, deepen your breathing and release your exhale with sound.

Use different tones to vibrate and express different areas of your body and different aspects of pleasure. Your pleasure is maximized by the degree you can express and open yourself to receive my nectar.

As our breathing pace quickens, feel the energy pulse through your body.

It is important to allow this energy to move through the body and not get to built up in any one region.

You must learn to control your pelvic diaphragm and lift this primordial energy up through your spinal system.

By touching the body we can assist the breath in penetrating every cell.


When you are near my ear, breath your warm breath and sensual intentions there.

Let there be a fierceness and a growl as you activate your primal instincts.

Let your spine be fluid and your energy dynamic.

At times I would wish you bind and constrict me like a bao.

Other times you pounce as a tiger unto its prey.

Let there be an intensity of action and breathing that is then balanced by stillness.


Slow my body down and bring your nose and lips next to mine.

Let us breath so delicately that if there was a feather underneath our nose it would not blow.

Subtle breathing allows for subtle sensations to become heightened.

Release any control of the breathing and simply surrender into the moment.

The surrendering of breathing allows for a surrender of control.

Release the conditioning you wear into the street and show up in your full potential as a lover.


Next, let me sit on top of you. As I breath out, breath me in and circulate my breath into your lingam, let me receive it into my yoni and I will breath it up and back into you. Let us circulate the energy of the breath until it awakens new dimensions of pleasure.

Then we hold our breath and sift into eternity.

Pulsing our genitals and pumping cerebralspinal fluid through the spinal column through rhythmic contractions of the spinal pumps.

Then release the exhale and let your breath guide you.


When you begin to kiss my lower body. Learn to cool and heat your breath.

Practice releasing and relaxing your tongue so that it may taste the air like a snake. 

Learn to breath through your tongue.

Study animal tongues and the way snakes move to learn the primal way.


You must feel to breath, so surrender your psychic armoring and be naked unto our love.

Breath in to feel …

Your passion.

Your insecurity.

Your power.

Your fragility.

You are a multi-dimensional being and all that you are open and available to feel, is what is possible to heal….in you and to hold the space for me to do the same.



Your breathing marks the incoming energy that is animating your body and sustaining your life.

Let a gratitude and devotion be anointing your incoming breath.


If we sustain eye contact and breath in harmony and without pause, we can blur the line between one moment and next, as well as we can dissolve the separation between you and I.  When there is but one breath, we are to come into union.

This my love, is the sacred art of breathing. When there is no more two bodies, but one breath, all is known.  

Zachary Koop ZK Alignment Coaching-Breathwork, Yoga, Qigong, Meditation, Holistic Coaching-
phone: 604-996-5667
website: www.zkcoaching.cafacebook: zk alignment coachinginstagram: @breathwithzac

Shiva and Shakti Divine Union

Now begins love.

Shiva embraced Shakti in his arms
Their breath pulses in rhythm
Engorged in the present moment, their eyes each looking upon anothers’ eternity

Shiva moves in without hesitation
Shakti receives and releases her breath with the sound of pleasure

Her senses peak as she opens to receive
She tastes the nectar of his heart’s intention
Anointed by the sounds of her partner’s growl

She feels safe to surrender
Her softness allows his love to penetrate deep
The connection is electric and the fine lotus-like thread in the spine becomes illuminated

Energy circulating and warming in the lower regions
She brings his cauldron to boil
Steamy awaking energy arouses up the spine like a snake
Her divine slithers through the delicate webbing of his nervous system
Closing his eyes, he feels as though she has grown 8 limbs and each of them is stroking and caressing

A wrestle evolves and he is soon on top
Undressing her he is keen to keep the embers of passion aflame
Listening to her every breath to guide the dance of soul’s in divine union

Suddenly the room becomes brighter and colours define
A shift in dimensions
And a pause in motion

Stillness begs
And the desire is witnessed
Patiently they touch into eternity

Resting at the center of their being, they listen for the call of the heart
It’s time to start
A blink of the eye and a sudden turn in energy arouses the great mystery
Open and curious

Shiva takes his tongue and begins to lick and suck her toes
Shakti wiggles to the unfamiliar sensation and then surrenders into a new ecstasy
By letting go she offers a piece of her conditioned self to be released
Her body melts
He receives her pleasure
And it polarizes his energy

They become as magnets
Snake-like, they wrap and squeeze one another like an anaconda
Darting his tongue in and out, he moves into his animal and enters deeply into her cave
Sensing the environment directly without thought
Sensitive and receptive
Awake and aware

The deeper they surrender into the force that draws them near
the more layers are shed
touching upon the place in the middle where they are both one
And dancing in their polarities
They are defining one another
They become more beautiful with each moment
Cast upon divine light, they become chiseled and refined in love’s sight

He moves in every way that is just right, because he is listening to his body and know himself
Nothing to hide
She see’s herself clearly and is willing to offer her love from wholeness
This is why each kiss brings about a sense of fullness

It happened

They breath in to receive breath with gratitude
Watching the turning between inhaling and exhaling breath, they dissolve in the eternal cycle

Soon enough Shiva’s exhaling breath is Shakti’s inhaling breath
A stream of life-giving consciousness circulates through their inner universes
This exchange of breath penetrates deeper than the ordinary kiss
It is felt on every level of being

Then rises the great sensation
After much work of cultivation
A celebration of body and soul

This orgasm starts at the bottom and climbs its way through every energy center
Activating pleasure, power, love, awareness, bliss, and ecstasy
Endless waves of energy radiate in every direction, altering the vibration of every cell
Bodies cast aside; they melt like ice into water
They dissolve into steam and rise above the clouds

Each moment becomes a blossoming
Every cell is allowing

Here and now
Radiant awakeness
Unwavering attention

Shiva continues to fan the embers as in the beginning
Careful to not lose the spark that lit this fire burning
It keeps them warm
Devoted to flames
They cast themselves in
And return to the light

Silky wet panties

Don’t read

A touch deeper than the ordinary
A questionable sensation
The sound of friction 

When these lips touch
We live in the mystery

We are called to the act
We are dancers in the play of love

A wet glove on a single finger
Words linger when the hormones pulse

The shadow work of sex is to see your fantasies
And the desire from which they came
Blame and shame are players in the game

Healing cums when we are willing to shine the light of love
And rise above
And get low
And find harmony in the middle

Pushing aside the body’s desire is to set fire to your home
Instead, grow a garden
And reap and sow the seeds you wish to see flower

Know thyself
Thy desires
And wherefrom they started
Carry your consciousness there and everywhere
And I mean everywhere

There are few acts more nurturing for the soul
Our bodies drip, warm, and moan
If we allow

How you make love, is how you live
All your patterns are there
Your relationship with self
Your confidence
Your relationship with the masculine and feminine
Your capacity to give and recieve pleasure and love
Your attachment styles
Your communication skills
Your empathetic relating

Raise the consciousness of your love making
And rise to a new standard of awareness

When every kiss is a conscious expression
You will become as an adept meditator who is aware of every life giving breath

Se× is meditation
Medicine for the body, mind, and soul

Silky wet panties instead of saffron robes
No statues of buddhas
Jusr the living flesh of your divine partner

The bedroom is a place of prayer
Or sin
And I don’t mean culturally naughty acts are wrong
Sin means unconsciousness

Om sexy sexy sexy




Her trembling stare
Still pierces

Waking up and still dreaming
Your silent call left no echo

Why is all I can ask
The depth of emotion is like this magnolia tree

Blossoming white and too proud
Loud signs signal a wavering spirit without a voice

Your choice
And the fire you left burning

Your departing gift is too much to stomach
Legacy of foot prints

Come and gone like the fallen magnolia flowers

A circle of humanity
Broken inside
Connected by pain
My sorrows are held by the rain
Yet I wish it would thunder
And pour and pour

We still stand and hold the pain
In our bodies you remain

When does this cycle end?
When will this heart mend?

I tend
I tend
I sow and see
How we cannot be free
Untill all are released from the trauma we carry

Eventually ill know why
When I’m finished this cry
And processed what needs to die

Free us from the lie
Let the truth emerge
And I will purge

Go home safely
I’ll see you again some day

For now, all I can do is rest in this weary body
And light a candle for those that are still here

The rain is falling heavy now
The magnolia tree will grow strong this year

Channeled Conversations with the Self

When you’re tired of searching you’ll come home to these words.
There’s something familiar here.
Come home.

Where you feel at ease.
Breathe.. calm as a cool breeze.

Behind these words is a light.
Crawling into bed and everything alright.
Wrapped in familiar sheets.
Remember that there are things that never dull with repeated use.
Hold the one’s you love.

Emotions flow.
Yesterdays sorrow dripped from earth and sky.
All of nature knows how to cry.

Tomorrow never comes.
Don’t delay the garden.
Plant in Spring and live in harmony with the cycles.
A time to dance and a time to rest.
A time to tik tok and a time meditate.
Isn’t that how she goes?

I let go of a belief today.
I feel light.
Reality looks brighter when I see it without a filter.

I’m turning now.
Mind is yearning for romance.
Can body come too?
Let’s ask the heart.

It’s not waiting, it’s cultivating.

A bird told me to let go of fantasy.
And heal the relationship with my mother.

Walk before you dance.
Learn the way of loving the self before you try and tango with another.
When will I know I’m ready?

When you surrender all desire.
Does that mean I won’t want it?
Just the parts of you who want to use love.

Learn to recognize what cannot be hidden.
Is that a riddle?
Peek a boo.
Remember now?

Remember how you loved your mom with your whole heart
Have you ever loved another with such purity?
Do you remember when your love became lessened?
Heal this part of yourself and know a love that is True.

I don’t always feel as though I belong here.
Here, where I live…where should I live?
In the heart. It is your home and your compass.
I try and live and listen to my heart.
Stop trying.

Who am I?
Close your eyes, what do you see?
No one.

What is my purpose?
What are you doing right now?
Entertain this …. Your purpose is always what you are doing right now. You simply need to be totally surrendered in your being to feel complete. From a place of wholeness, you living your purpose will unfold naturally.

What can you tell me about past lives?
What would you like to know?
Is there any past lives that I should know about that are blocking my growth that you can share with me?
All the most pertinent areas of your growing are available in the experiences you have had in this lifetime, they contain the hologram of past lives.

What can I do to better contribute to the health and healing of the planet?
Become whole.
How will this help?
Stop trying to help the world as if it were something separate from you and become one with creation, from this wholeness of being, all action will unfold in accordance with destiny.

Is destiny real? What about Free will!?
Who says there is one destiny?
How is that destiny if there is more than one?
There are many dimensions to existence and experience.
I get it.

I feel complete.
My mind is clear.
Thank you.